The saying goes...'Nice guys/ladies finish last'.  How many of you agree with that?  How many of you men have experienced this?  and how many of you ladies are guilty of  by passing the 'nice guy' for the bad boy?  Are 'bad boys' or 'bad girls' preferred over nice girls/nice guys?  What do you think? and why?  

The Roles We Play!

What are some of the things that women/men do that contributes to the breakdown and disconnection between of our relationship with one another? WAIT!...Before answering and pointing the finger at the opposite sex as we always seem to do, I would like each sex to speak about their own faults/issues. For instance...women speak on how WE contribute to the breakdown/disconnect and Men speak on how YOU contribute to the breakdown and disconnect. We are always pointing the finger at each other, let's start by looking at ourselves.

Is it really the thought that counts?

The saying is " It's the thought that counts". With Christmas being right around the corner how many ppl really believe and live by that saying? Would you be upset if your mate did not get you a fancy expensive gift from a store but instead gave you something homemade and or heartfelt?...be honest.